Helping Children With Anxiety

As a parent, it can be challenging to see your child struggling with anxiety. You want to help them feel better but may not know how to approach the situation. It’s important to remember that anxiety is a common condition that affects people of all ages. By understanding what anxiety is and how to help your child manage it, you can provide them with the support they need to overcome their fears and worries.

What is Anxiety?

Anxiety is a normal response to stress or danger. It’s a feeling of unease, such as worry or fear, that can be mild or severe. When anxiety becomes overwhelming or interferes with daily life, it can be diagnosed as an anxiety disorder. Anxiety disorders are children’s most common mental health disorders, affecting around 10-20% of kids worldwide.

Symptoms of Anxiety in Children

It’s essential to recognize the anxiety symptoms in children so you can help them manage their feelings. Common symptoms include:

  • Excessive worry or fear about everyday activities
  • Refusal to go to school or participate in activities
  • Trouble sleeping or nightmares
  • Physical symptoms such as stomachaches, headaches, or nausea
  • Irritability or outbursts of anger
  • Avoidance of social situations


If you notice any of these symptoms in your child, it’s essential to talk to them about their feelings and seek professional help if necessary.

How to Help Your Child Manage Anxiety

Here are some strategies you can use to help your child manage their anxiety:

Listen to their concerns: Let your child know you’re there to listen to their worries and fears. Please encourage them to talk about what’s bothering them and let them know their feelings are valid.

Teach relaxation techniques: Deep breathing exercises, yoga, and meditation effectively reduce anxiety. Encourage your child to practice these techniques regularly.

Avoid Avoidance: It’s natural for kids to want to avoid things that make them anxious, but this can cause the anxiety to get worse in the long run. Please encourage your child to face their fears gradually and offer support and reassurance along the way.

Create a routine: Establishing a predictable way can help children feel more secure and less anxious. Ensure they get plenty of sleep, eat a healthy diet, and engage in regular physical activity.

Seek professional help: If your child’s anxiety is interfering with their daily life or causing them significant distress, it’s essential to seek professional help. A mental health professional can give your child the tools and support they need to manage their anxiety.

Final Thoughts

Dealing with a child who suffers from anxiety can be challenging, but with the right approach, you can help them manage their fears and worries. 

Please encourage your child to talk about their feelings, teach them relaxation techniques, and establish a routine that promotes good physical and mental health. Remember, if your child’s anxiety is causing them significant distress, seek professional help. Together, you can help your child overcome their anxiety and thrive.

Get a FREE eBook copy of our book Positopia World to help your kids begin to learn about their emotional health and how to handle it.